Sexual Reciprocation

[Dick Spit No. 2019-03] In this article I talk briefly about sexual reciprocation with regard to sexual roles and sexual acts.

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Whether you’re in a “fuck-buddy” or a friends-with-benefits relationship, or perhaps in an intimate and committed relationship, I believe it’s always best for each person in the relationship to clearly establish what it is that either person in the relationship will do and won’t do sexually. I prefer to believe that each sexually active person either has certain limits, tolerances, and/or a measure or degree of comfort regarding the sexual role they play as well as the kind of sexual acts they will perform or will have performed on them. Of course, no person should ever be forced or coerced into doing anything sexual which they either do not want to do or which they feel – or would or might feel uncomfortable with doing to someone else or with having done to themselves.

I also believe in giving or allowing a person the opportunity to return the sexual favor I  performed (or which that person had performed on me) and to do so of their own volition or if so asked. I call this sexual reciprocation or sexual reciprocating. In my opinion, mutual reciprocation is an important element in any sexual relationshipThis is where openly communicating with one’s partner comes in; where you and your partner determine what sexual role will be played, by whom, for how long, etc, and/or what sexual act(s) will be allowed or not allowed, and to what extent. You and your partner can determine whether or not the sexual roles can or will be reversed and if certain sexual act(s) can, will, or should be returned in kind. If while having sex, a partner says no to anything, then you should accept that person’s answer and, if necessary, make a mental note to discuss the matter later (assuming your partner is willing), after the sex you’re having is over.

sexreciprocation art-3If you are a “go-with-the-flow” in bed kind of guy and not (what I’d call) an only” kind of guy in bed (with the word “only” meaning that you “only top” or that you “only bottom”), then this article may appeal to you, otherwise it may not. (No shade or disrespect to those gay, bisexual, and SGL (same-gender loving) male readers who are “top only” or “bottom only” kind of guys. To be honest, you wouldn’t be my type.)

As most of you know, when it comes to male-on-male anal coitus (anal intercourse), there are men who either are – or who prefer – the sexual role of being the top (aka the penetrator), or the bottom (aka the penetrated), as well as men who are simply versatile (meaning, with regard to sexual roles, they “go with the flow” during sex…meaning, they can be either the top or the bottom in male-to-male anal coitus). Some men consider themselves as simply sexual versatile when it comes to male-to-male anal coitus while other men who are versatile get a bit more specific when describing their sexual roles. Such versatile men may consider themselves as being a versatile-top. This simply means that while such men enjoy playing the role of the top, sometimes they may prefer to bottom. Other versatile men may consider themselves as being a versatile-bottom. This simply means that while such men enjoy playing the role of the bottom, sometimes they may prefer to top.

As a sexually versatile man myself (versatile bottom, to be specific), reciprocation of sexual roles – like sexual acts, is important to me. In other words, there may be times when I do not want to bottom. Communicating this to an understanding partner – particularly to a partner who himself is or may be versatile (or specifically is a versatile-top or a versatile-bottom), can help keep the relationship healthy and strong.

sexreciprocation art-1Reciprocation of the sexual role and/or with a sexual act simply involves each person in the relationship knowing and understanding the desires, needs, and feelings of their partner as well as each person in that relationship being thoughtful, considerate, and patient. Each partner in the relationship should try to express his (or her) point of view regarding any matter of sex; doing so wisely (and preferably) long before ever allowing four, six, eight, twelve or more months to pass in the relationship. Few people neither like nor appreciate late-in-the-relationship sexual surprises. Whether your sexual relationship with a person is classified as being that of “fuck-buddy”, a “friend-with-benefits” or one that’s an intimate commitment, there’s never any need for anyone in the relationship to be in need nor unhappy because to be such means that the relationship is not a healthy relationship.

Watch the 15-minute YouTube (safe-for-work) gay video short posted below called Versátil (Versatile). In the film, you’ll meet Alex and Hugo, a handsome gay couple. Versátil is a foreign-language video but has English subtitles. I don’t know how long the video will be on YouTube so I suggest you watch it as soon as you can. (If you can’t see the video embedded in this article then either click here or click the video title above.)

I encourage you to share your comments about the video and/or your own personal experiences related to sexual reciprocation in the comments section. (Thanks!)

– Renzo

Feeling Sick…Yet Still Sexual!

rfx_fuck it, sick,not feeling well[Dick Spit No. 2019-02] 
Hey fellas.

I’m sorry that since last Saturday (19JAN19), I hadn’t posted to Masculine Perspectives. I’ve been feeling “under the weather (read: sick, ill) for eight (8) days straight! UGH! I just spent time trying to take care of myself.
(S/N: Now’s the time when I could use a nice, warm, naked hug from the front and someone warm and naked to “become one with me” from the back. Please? Thank you!)

Today however, I’m beginning to feel a little better, although I still have a terrible and nagging cough and cold. Along with cold meds, rest, taking my daily shower (a norm for me) a diet of soup, crackers, tea and honey (which I sometimes spike with rum because I’m old school that way), drinking lots of water, and of course, sucking on cough drops (instead of dick), I’ve tried to avoid speaking whenever I can so that my throat can heal. My 22-year-old son who’s away in college, loves to text me rather than have a voice conversation on the phone. He appreciates the temporary pass I’ve given him to just go ahead and text me instead of calling or having a Facetime session. Kids today.
I’m a radio broadcast announcer and station DJ by profession, therefore I need my voice to properly and efficiently do my job. (And oh boy; the acting job I did last Saturday while doing my radio show – a time when the symptoms of illness seemed to have hit me the hardest, was no-less than Oscar-winning indeed!)

I’ll be back very soon (perhaps as soon as late this evening or this weekend) to posting more dick-chubbin’ eye candy photos and sharing more of my thoughts, experiences, and/or useful information which (per the mission and purpose of this blog) promote the expression, frank discussion, and celebration of matters related to male masculinity, sexuality and sensuality. Until then, take care and remember to exercise your prostate. (Life’s too short not to have an orgasm every day.) Before I close this article, here’s a sexy anecdote that may give some of you a chuckle.

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A few days ago, I tried jacking off (masturbating). Well…actually I did indeed masturbate/jack off.  Mind you, I neither needed nor had any real desire or horniness to masturbate. I simply wanted to play with myself because…well, I hadn’t had a hard-on (erection) in a few days! (S/N: I suppose when you get my age (58), you always want to be sure that you can still get your dick hard whenever you want – even when you’re sick.)

So…there I was in bed that one night – naked of course, because I always sleep in the nude whether or not I’m sick – and played with my then-limp/flaccid dick and big balls. Thinking back to some of my past sexually hot experiences which often serve as my  ‘batespiration (“batespiration” ia portmanteau of the words ‘masturbation’ and ‘inspiration’)I got hard and began masturbating, I stopped briefly to grab some Albolene, some of which I keep in a small canister in my nightstand.
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product I use as lube for masturbation. I’ll talk about some lubes I use to masturbate with in a future Masculine Perspectives blog article.)  I put some Albolene on my cock and return to jacking off. Fuck, was it difficult for me to concentrate! And I didn’t like the fact that my hard cock somehow felt a lot thinner in my hand in terms of its normal girth. What the fuck was in my hand?

After what seemed like hours, I finally came, ate my load – because fuck, guys…I simply enjoy doing that sometimes, wiped my greasy hand and dick, breathed a huge sigh of post-orgasmic relief, turned over and immediately fell asleep.

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Now, you might ask, “Why did you bother masturbating knowing you were sick?
All I can say to that question is this: I was sick … and certainly not thinking well at the moment; perhaps hoping that an orgasm would help me feel a bit better. While I had an orgasm and ejaculated a decent amount of semen, I barely felt the orgasm itself that night. There could be any number of reasons for that. Anyway fellas, I wasn’t being dumb as I was jacking my dick; I was simply being male and…..sexual. It is what it is with me. Masturbating did not make me feel any sicker. In fact, masturbating may have helped heal me in some small way. As I write this article, I’m considering jacking off again – either after work this evening but for sure once or twice this weekend because, as I just said, masturbation just may speed up the healing process!
I talked briefly about my jack-off experience in this tweet which I also posted to my Facebook page:
rfx, renzo tweet (22jan2019)Hope you enjoyed the read! Naked hugs… and a gentle tug to your left buttock!

– Renzo

Perhaps You Can Relate…

[Dick Spit No. 2019-01] I’m hoping 2019 will be the year of my first actual/serious date in a decade. This random sex thing – while often fun and pleasing, may sooner or later take a toll on this sexy, healthy, middle-aged body. I mean, fuck; it’s 3:48 am on a Monday morning as I begin writing this, having already tweeted and Facebook-posted the heavily abbreviated, censored version of what happened last night/this early morning.

perhaps you can relateThis past weekend was indeed a long for me. I had just flown back from Philly this past Saturday after attending my mom’s funeral held the Thursday before. Yesterday (Sunday) afternoon I did my radio show (which, after live broadcasting, often leaves me exhausted). I then went home, had dinner, and had planned to simply chill in my recliner, watching whatever was on TV until I was drowsy and ready to go to bed.

Sometime before midnight, I get a call from a former fuck-buddy of mine. Damn. Looking at the name on the caller ID and seeing the name “Kevyn J.”, it hit me that I had neither seen nor heard from Kevyn (“Kev” for short) in years. I’d always assumed he had moved on.
[S/N: In my experience, fuck buddies, particularly some older ones, always get out of the “game” of being a fuck-buddy as they move on to marriage or to some other committed relationship type situation. It’s no biggie. Over the years, I’ve long since gotten used to my fuck-buddies moving on without leaving so much as a word or hint to me that it might be weeks, months, or perhaps years before we’d again hook up – if ever, or at least again see each other. Considering this, I always like to fuck my sex partners as though sex with that person would be the last time I’d have sex with that person (because it just might be).]

I had half a mind to ignore Kevyn’s call, thinking, “Well, I’ll be damned. Where the fuck has his fine sweet ass been all these years? Perhaps it was on instinct that I decided to answer his call. perhaps you can relate (gif1)It’s not as though I get sex that often – especially from a guy with whom I still have fond memories – and would often jack off to those memories – of us having some damn good, hot man-sex. I answered the call and, just as I suspected, Kevyn was indeed shamelessly making a late-night booty call. All he said to me was, “Hey-y-y-y, Renzo! Whassup? I’m in town. Mind if I come over?” I chuckled to myself as I noticed my dick getting hard, precum already oozing from the tip. Yep; this guy Kevyn (who’s about fifteen years younger than me) was only one of a few dudes whose fellow masculine,“alpha male” type demeanor, his willingness to “go with the flow” in bed, and who readily (most thankfully) reciprocated any sex act I did to him – to say nothing of his excellent personal hygiene practices, was on my list of favorite fuck-buddies.

I have always held (and still hold) a strong physical and sexual attraction to Kevyn. He is very good-looking, has a beautiful body (at least his is my preferred body type – the kind which I unapologetically reflect in many of the images I post on Masculine Perspectives), and always smelled good. Guys like Kevyn have always had a unique sexual effect on me; the telltale signs being my rock-hard erection and strings of precum leaking out of my cock whenever he’d text or call asking whether he could come over. Though I might be tired as fuck (as I was last night from my recent trip home and the weekend), it was always difficult for me to say “no” to him; something which goes back several years when we first started our fuck-buddy relationship. And, as tired as I was last night, I couldn’t say no to him. I can’t explain it, but my body always seems to find the energy to have sex.

Anyway, I said to Kevyn, “Sure, man; come on over.” Well, that cocky mutherfucker just knew I was going to say “yes” because before I could finish my sentence, he immediately said, “Already on my way. See you in ten!” perhaps you can relate_rn's dildo, 7inchI hung up then went to my bedroom to remove the comforter and throw pillows from the bed. Next, from the nightstand I took out the half empty box of condoms – checking the expiration date, then took out the lube and cock rings and placed all of that on top. I took out my 7-inch lifelike dildo, too – though rarely do I use my dildo when having sex. However, since I bought it several months ago, I wanted to show it off to Kev.
[S/N: My dildo (pictured) is strictly for my personal pleasure when I’m exceptionally horny and the “real thing”– like Kev’s dick for example, isn’t available to satisfy my needs.]

I had showered several hours earlier so I was ready… ass-wise, for sex. Based on my many previous sexual experiences with Kevyn, I figured (and found that I had figured correctly) that he’d be ready…ass-wise, too. We both are very much into eating ass (aka anilingus) and that’s always a good thing! The moment Kevyn walked in my place we kissed and caressed each other like we were old lovers before pulling away to go sit in the living room and chat for a bit. We enjoyed a couple of glasses of white wine before Kevyn leaned over to kiss me and begin making out. He pulled off my robe to find me already naked underneath….dick hard, leaking precum. perhaps you can relate_toe lickHe leaned down to lick the precum from my dick before putting his lips around the head then went on to swallow the entire shaft, sucking my dick for all its worth. Feeling like I was about to cum, I gently push Kevyn’s head off my dick so I could pull off his shirt, jeans (he wasn’t wearing underwear), and socks. I took one of Kev’s beautiful sweat-moist feet in my hand to massage and suck on his toes. I don’t have a foot fetish but am a sucker, so to speak, for attractive guys who have (what I perceive), are nice, well-pedicured feet. As I reached up to begin sucking Kevyn’s dick, he grabbed my hand, saying “Let’s take this to bed.” (You can use your imagination regarding what happened next.)

Roughly three hours later, after the great sex, Kevyn goes to the bathroom to wash his dick and balls. He shouts out to me (who’s busy drafting this blog article) in the bedroom, “Hey man… I hate to play “hit it and run” but I gotta get back to my brother’s place. I’m flying out tomorrow afternoon.”
Geez. 
Late-night booty calls, particularly those held the day before the work week starts, can be something else. I’m usually off work on most Mondays and had hoped Kevyn would stay with me until morning. Fuck how I miss spending mornings with him. We’d always have some very hot sex in the morning, often started by whichever one of us had woken up first and began doing something sexual – and sexy – to the other as he slept. Oh, yeah…morning sex can often be the best sex! Oh well; so much for me getting any of that from him this time around. *sigh*
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Kevyn just left here a few minutes ago. It’s now 4:21 am on this second Monday of the new year. I should be tired but… I’m notI’m fuckin’ horny again! After I close and publish this article, I’m going back to bed and jack off before I go to sleep. I’ll lay my naked ass in the cum-damp spot on my bed, among the many blond pubic hairs Kevyn left behind on the sheets. As I jack off, I’ll repeatedly sniff the same pillow I propped under Kevyn’s ass so that I could better eat and fuck that tight, hairy hole of his. The odor of man-funk – that is, the combined male pheromones from our armpits, scrotums, ass funk, and the cum odor from both Kev’s body and mine own still linger in my bedroom. All those funky odors serve as an aphrodisiac and certainly must be the cause for why I’m horny. Fuck, how I wish Kevyn were back here...now.
*sigh*

Listen to me carry on. I may need to chill a bit with these late-night weekend fuck-buddy booty calls.

– Renzo

Male Masturbation: Appreciating Both Hands

**NOTE** This is the first in a new and continuous Masculine Perspectives blog series on male masturbation.

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[Dick Spit No. 2018-04] I am right-handed. That means that most personally intimate things are done using with my right hand rather than my left. When I want to pleasure myself, I use either my left or my right hand as needed, depending on what I want or have to do. However when masturbating (aka jacking off or jerking off), I always use my right hand. (Keep reading; I break all of this down later.)

Due to having carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS) issues for the past several days, I’ve had to wear a damn hand & wrist orthosis (aka a support brace). Of course, wearing that thing hindered my ability to jack off with my right hand. (Mind you, I never wear the orthosis when I have to take a shit. I’m just glad the CTS doesn’t flare up when it’s time for me to wipe my ass! LOL!😊)

Typing anything on my laptop while wearing the orthosis had become quite a tiresome chore so I rarely did any of that, seeing that whenever I draft a blog article or leave a post or comment on social media sites like Facebook, I tend to write more than just a few words. When I drafted the article you’re now reading, I thought that if I typed with the orthosis off my hand – even for just a few minutes at a time, I wouldn’t have any wrist pain. Nope; I was wrong. Renzo's Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (CTS) IssueWithin minutes of typing without the orthosis, my wrist starting tingling again. If you’ve never had carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS), try to imagine being stung by several sharp needles hitting your skin in the same area, in rapid succession, several hundred times at the same time. It’s like the nerves in your wrist are being compressed or pinched. Another way to understand the CTS pain, is the pain you might remember feeling if you’ve ever been stung either by a bee (or worse) by a hornet (the sting of the latter insect I know all about because it happened to me – and that sting hurt like a bitch!) Anyway, those two instances are probably the best ways I know to describe the feeling of CTS. Click here to read more about carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS).

Like most dudes who masturbate, I grip my dry or pre-cum or lube-covered erect penis/dick/cock with my entire right hand, not just with my fingers. In fact, I don’t know any guys who jack off with just a couple of fingers, though I’m sure they’re out there somewhere. I respect the fact that every dude has a masturbation method that is ideal, and which happens to work for him. I don’t judge but I’d never let a guy jack me off with just a couple of fingers. Uh-uh. Nope. Fuck that. I’m gonna need a guy to grip my hard dick just firmly enough (not to hurt me) with his whole hand and show my schlong some interest and love!

Over the near fifty (50!) years that I’ve been masturbating – which I suppose would make me a “master masturbator” 😄 (and it will indeed be fifty years come 2019, seeing how I started jacking off when I was nine years old), occasionally I’ve done some left-handed masturbating. Using the left-hand method, I’ve rarely jacked off long enough to reach…uh, completion(“Completion” means that I didn’t jack off to the point of semen ejaculation and/or orgasm.) When my circumcised penis is erect/hard, it curves a bit up and to the left, making masturbating with my left hand not necessarily uncomfortable but somewhat difficult to do with pleasure, regardless of how I’m holding my dick. Naked twink reading gay fictionThus, the left-hand jack off method is something I rarely do. Whether I’m flipping through the internet/web, through a pornographic magazine, or reading some sexually erotic story in a book – all while using with my right hand, my left hand is rubbing my dick; getting it to grow from a “chub” (semi-erect/hard) to a “rod” (full erection) – and catching pre-cum in the process (which I always either eat or, if I’m using lube, smear it on the head and shaft of my dick, and/or I’ll smear it on my nipples). I’d do this until I was ready to let my right hand take over the jacking job.

(S/N: I just had a thought of how much I appreciate writing all this to guys who can relate and not to women. I doubt few women would or could understand, much less appreciate this article, and certainly none of them would be able to relate because, duh…they don’t have a penis! LOL! 😆)

Since I always masturbate with my right handmy left hand has other very important sexy jobs to do during my jack-off sessions, some if not all of which some male readers might be able to relate to since they do these things themselves. (S/N: In every jack session I am, and prefer to be, completely naked.) In no particular order, here’s what I use my left hand for, especially while my right hand is slick with precum or lube and massaging my hard cock. (An article about some of the products I like to use for jack-off lube is forthcoming.):

  • If I’m watching porn on my laptop computer, my left hand is used to move the computer mouse or type on the keyboard to click or flip though websites or webpages;
  • whether I’m looking at porn sites on my laptop computer – which I keep on my desk – my desk also serves as my masturbation stationam just lying in bed, or sitting on the floor, my left hand is used to …
  • cup and/or fondle my hairy balls;Renzo's lifelike 7inch dildo
  • rub my inner thigh areas to get some of my ball sack musk for me to sniff;
  • massage my taint (the perineum);
  • massage or finger-fuck my butt hole;
  • insert (in my ass) my penis-sharped dildo (or whatever other phallic-shaped object I’ve got lying around and want to use) and piston-fuck myself – either slow or fast, depending on how horny I am or have become after edging for a long time;
  • massage or pinch my nipples (after I’ve first licked the index finger and thumb of that handand, with the fingers of my left hand …
  • carry the sweet precum that’s been oozing from my dick (usually while edging), to either smear on my hard nipples, lips, or feed into my mouth.

As you can see fellas, I shamelessly like talking about how I make my masturbation sessions sensuous and sexy! And why the fuck shouldn’t I talk about how I give myself (and/or another dude) such deserving, sensuous, physical, and sexual pleasure?Flyin' Solo-38 Masturbation is natural. It is also a very safe, healthy, fun, and pleasurable act of being human. Life is too short for a man not to have an orgasm whenever and as often as he can or want to have. This is true regardless of whether that man has or doesn’t have a steady or occasional partner with whom he can have sex. And, while that man is on the way to giving himself (and/or his partner) that orgasm, there’s no reason for him not to build for himself (and/or his male partner) an intense, longer-lasting orgasm.

Finally, rarely do I ever do what I like to call, the jack off quickie. I prefer to save such quickies for when I’m exceptionally horny and happened to be someplace (like at my job for instance) where I can’t leave anytime soon or can’t get naked to masturbate. In such instances, I might wait until I get home to “take care of business“, or I’d go to either one of the following places to jack off:
– the men’s restroom (choosing the last or next to the last stall – if it’s clean) or to a unisex restroom (which is best because you can lock the door behind you);
– a storage room, maintenance closet, or ante-room;
– an empty, seldom used office or room;
or better yet (because there’s a better degree of privacy)
     – to my car – if parked nearby, if the weather is fine, and outside temperature is of a comfortable degree.

Flyin' Solo-73Jack-off quickies are okay when a guy’s horniness begins to overwhelm him. However, if that guy wants to truly take his time to edge his dick, and to feel/caress his balls, play with his taint/perineum, and ass hole, and/or touch every erogenous zone (aka e-zones) that he can reach and feel on his naked body – all without interruption or nearby eavesdroppers, then he’ll need all of his will power to refrain from the temptation of doing a jack off quickie and wait until he’s safely home or to his room (if he has roommates); any place where there’s [more] privacy for him to peacefully get erotically and sexually tuned into himself as he masturbates.

I’ve got more to share in this Masculine Perspectives series on male masturbation coming in future blog articles. Stay tuned!

– Renzo

*DILF: Keiynan Lonsdale

Keiynan Lonsdale-2[Dick Spit No. 2018-05] This post of Masculine Perspectives’ DILF may most be appreciated by fans of very handsome actor, dancer, and singer-songwriter Keiynan Lonsdale! My long sexual attraction to Keiynan and my fetish for hairy armpits on handsome men took special notice to Keiynan’s hairy armpits (hence another reason for this post) which are shown several times in the Preach music video that Keiynan did. *Drool*  Check it out!S/N: [Click here or https://genius.com/Keiynan-lonsdale-preach-lyrics to see/read the lyrics to Preach.]

The official music video of Preach was released June 29, 2018. The song track single is available for listening and download on Apple iTunes and on Amazon.com. Read the short article published by Pride.com about Keiynan Lonsdale and Preach.

ARTIST BACKGROUND: Keiynan Lonsdale, 26, is from Sydney, Australia. In 2017 he stated on social media that he is attracted to people regardless of their gender. Although a number of news outlets have initially stated that he is bisexual, Keiynan himself prefers not to label his sexuality. The man is not only good looking but is quite talented in my opinion. Then again, because I’ve got the DILF hots for him, my opinion is biased. Click here to read the Wikipedia write-up on Keiynan Lonsdale.

Keiynan stars/starred as character ‘Wally West/Kid Flash’ on the CW network series The Flash and on DC’s Legends of Tomorrow (aka ‘Legends of Tomorrow’). Those two television shows have not made the best use of that man’s talents. As some readers know, Keiynan has also starred in a few movie films including The Divergent Series: Insurgent (2015), The Divergent Series: Allegiant (2016), and the 2018 American romantic teen comedy-drama film Love Simon.

On a related note …
Kiss The Boy
 is another Keiynan Lonsdale original music video and song track I love and which other fans of his may find of interest and enjoyment. (Read the Billboard.com article.) This song is also available for listening and downloading.

S/N: [Click here or https://genius.com/Keiynan-lonsdale-kiss-the-boy-lyrics to see/read the lyrics to Kiss The Boy.]

(*Dudes I’d Like to Fuck (DILF) is part of a Masculine Perspectives series.)

– Renzo

Writing About Male Sexuality

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Rarely do I feel the need to be ambiguous when I am writing or speaking about anything. My intent is to always be clear when expressing myself. I simply feel it is important to eliminate any chance of unnecessary ambiguity; unless of course, certain aspects of the topic about which I’m writing or speaking makes it necessary to be ambiguous.

Sometimes when I’m writing articles related to male sex and/or sexuality – particularly when the subject refers to or is directly talking about dick/cock, there are moments when I feel the use of words like “difficult” or difficulty” would be better and clearer to use in a sentence discussing and/or describing a particular action or activity related to the functioning of that particular male sex organ than using words like “hard” or “harder”.

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Fellow wordsmiths who also write blog articles on the subject of male sexuality – and who are proficient in grammar, efficient sentence structure, unambiguous word usage, and effective word flow, will understand and may appreciate the humor behind this article.

– Renzo

Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Pt. 3 of 3)

NOTE: This is Part 3 of a 3-part series. [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-3]
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Glory Holes: The Risks of Contracting a STI/STD –

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Simply because a guy’s mouth, tongue, penis, and/or whole ass and anus or butthole appear clean, that doesn’t necessarily mean nor is there any guarantee, that any of those body parts are in fact clean or that they are disease, virus, or infection-free. This is especially true if the owner of those body parts (and any sex toys which may have been used) has been sitting on a public restroom toilet or on the toilet at an interstate expressway rest stop. This truth also applies if that man has recently engaged in either oral, anal, and/or vaginal sex with an anonymous person then after the sex act, may or may not have had the thought to rinse away with soap and water or wipe with an anti-bacteria cloth or towel, all of the saliva, semen and/or vaginal residue fluids, and/or fecal matter (if any) off his dick, from his ass hole, and/or from his mouth after engaging in acts of penetrative sex.

The risk of contracting or transmitting STIs (sexually transmitted infections) is minimized or reduced when condoms are used but is not necessarily eliminated. A disclaimer reflecting condom effectiveness is found clearly printed on most if not all major brand condom package boxes, usually near the set of instructions for use. In short, condoms are limited in their STI protection (and pregnancy prevention) factor. They do not [as yet] offer complete, one hundred percent effective protection against contracting or transmitting a STI.

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Still, using a condom will offer some if not more protection against contracting or transmitting a STI than to use no condom protection at all when having any form of penetrative (e.g., oral, anal, vaginal) sex.

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GET TESTED!
While a STI and a STD (sexually transmitted diseases) are similar, they are not the same thing. A STI starts out as infections – with the infected person possibly showing no symptoms of the virus, which may last for any length of time and which can later progress into disease, thus becoming a STD. For years the office of the U.S. Surgeon General, the Center for Disease Control (CDC), the World Health Organization (WHO), and many other health officials have consistently stressed the need for sexually active people to get themselves tested – and to get tested regularly – for STIs and STDs.

Remember that HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) is also a STI which, if left untreated and unmonitored by a physician, can progress into the STD known as AIDS (acquired  immunodeficiency syndrome). Get Tested (2)_Status is EverythingIf a HIV-infected person does not get tested for the virus then he or she has the potential to transmit that virus on to someone else who is not infected with HIV. Conversely, if a sexually active person knows or is highly confident that his/her body is clear of HIV and other STIs before engaging in sex, yet that person either neglects or refuses to wear a condom or does not make that requirement of their partner (whose sexual history and/or HIV/STI status is unknown) then after having sex, fails to get him/herself tested for HIV and other STIs, then it is possible that person may have contracted a STI. It’s also possible that person may have unknowingly transmitted a STI to their partner.

The short yet clearly blunt and direct public service message which says GET TESTED” is one of encouragement for the health benefit of not only sexually active people but also for the health benefit of general society itself. The message “GET TESTED” is usually followed with a short paragraph explaining why sexually active people should get tested for STIs. Get Tested (1)_Carry onThe message “GET TESTED” is also aimed at formerly sexually active people; persons who for some recent medical and/or physical reason are no longer able to engage in partner sex or who may have recently decided to become celibate or have chosen celibacy. The message “GET TESTED” is also aimed at those persons who have not had partner sex in a period ranging anywhere from a few weeks to several months, to within the last few or more years. And the message “GET TESTED” is also aimed at male or female victims of rape – although many victims of rape who visit a hospital or medical facility after being raped are normally tested for HIV and other STIs and STDs.

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This concludes the 3-part series.

Links to Part 1 and Part 2:
– Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 1) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-1]
 Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 2) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-2]

– Renzo