MP’s Photo of the Day (43)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (13jan2019)Proof of a healthy love is one that’s often expressed in the most interesting, creative, and exciting ways.

Sunday’s Sin (32)

Presenting images which boldly and shamelessly reflect the expressions of natural love, affection, intimacy, sensuality, and bonding between men.

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MP’s Photo of the Day (39)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (06jan2019)

Expressions of male-to-male (M2M) intimacy, sensuality, and bonding at its best!

Sunday’s Sin (31)

Presenting images which boldly and shamelessly reflect the expressions of natural love, affection, intimacy, sensuality, and bonding between men.

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MP’s Photo of the Day (9)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

MP_FOTD (12OCT2018)

Ebony and Ivory … beautifully together in harmony.

LGBT Pride: Crushing [Gay] Stereotypes

Many straight (heterosexual) people, as well as a number of gay (homosexual) and bisexual people too, have certain stereotypical ideas, beliefs. Many from both camps even hold tall, often ridiculous expectations about how a gay man is suppose to look (in terms of his physical appearance and with his choice and coordination of attire); what he is suppose to sound like (in terms of his voice and voice inflection); how he is suppose to behave (in terms of his behavior and mannerisms, et al); and how he is suppose to have a certain level of knowledge and/or awareness of certain so-called “well-known” things and/or people in and about mainstream society (i.e., the entertainment world and overall popular culture).

The three-and-a-half-minute long (3:25) BuzzFeed video clip in this post [below] is here to help remind readers that simply because a man is gay it doesn’t necessarily mean that he automatically fits some idea or some known or expected stereotype of what general society assumes or wants to presume to be a man who is homosexual (gay).

On that note, I want to add that this video can also be representative of men who are bisexual. Even though nothing in the video makes one mention of such men, I felt that with myself being bisexual, I needed to let readers of this blog know how the video can relate to men who aren’t necessarily gay. Many bisexual men and many heterosexual (straight) men who regularly or occasionally have sex with men but who aren’t innately gay/homosexual nor identify as bisexual yet identify as a MSM male (men/males who have sex with men/males), tend to befriend, have sex with, date and/or get into committed relationships with men who are gay. Bisexual men and MSM men are also considered by society as being “non-straight“/”non-heterosexual” men.

There are many of bisexual men and MSM men who neither do everything stereotypical of gay men nor know everything that a gay man is [stereotypically] presumed or is expected to know in terms of fashion, pop culture, et al. We’re just regular guys being ourselves – just like each of the guys in the BuzzFeed video clip is describing about himself. (Besides, many people in general society already hold enough ignorance and misunderstanding about bisexuality. It’s an ignorance and misunderstanding which, unfortunately, has given birth to a number of bad stereotypes about bisexuality and which bisexual men and women often have to contend.)

The bottom line: the LGBTQ+ “community” is one that is legionwe are everywhere!
As such, we come from every background known and unknown to general society, and we come in every skin color, from every ethnic group, and from many cultures. We also come in every age group, from every sociopolitical and/or religious and non-religious mindset. In short, LGBTQ+ people come from every corner and crack of world society. We “non-straights”/non-heterosexuals simply are all not going to fit  at least not neatly, into some limited minded person’s or social group’s idea or expectation stereotypical or otherwise, of what a non-straight/non-heterosexual human individual “should” look like and/or “should” act like. That simply is not going to happen. The sooner people in both the heterosexual and the non-heterosexual communities realize this fact, the sooner we all will be able to better get along. Hopefully that situation will occur because it would mean that we have come to understand, appreciate, accept, and respect each other and our respective differences.

Watch/listen to the captioned text video. If you have an open and logical mind you should get the point of the message expressed by its participants. Better yet, you might be able to personally identify with one if not all of them. I certainly do!

– Renzo

Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Pt. 2 of 3)

NOTE: This is Part 2 of a 3-part series. [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-2]
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Glory Holes: Used by Voyeurs (spies); Aren’t All Holes in a Wall –
It’s not talked about much – and probably because it doesn’t seem as sexy to some people, but a glory hole is also a place for and is often used by people who like to watch or spy on the person or other people who are on other side of the hole. Such people are called voyeurs. Voyeurs may be male or female. They can be anyone who is old enough to be left alone and unsupervised out in the world (e.g., anyone over the age of 10). Voyeurs come from all races and ethnic groups, from all nationalities, and from a variety of economic, political, religious, academic, vocational, technological, social, and moral backgrounds. I would estimate that everyone either knowingly or unknowingly has met or may perhaps be related to at least one person who either is an active voyeur or who has voyeuristic tendencies. Some voyeurs are dangerous while others not so much or are completely harmless.

For voyeurs to be successful in what they do, that person simply needs to be smart, savvy, cunning, and intelligent enough not to get seen or caught in the act of spying on another person or group of people. Voyeurs may be anyone who has and who uses his or her own [smart] cellphone camera (or other portable electronic device having a built-in camera) and/or has access to and the expertise to install and use tiny camera devices. The voyeur with such technical skills will plant those camera devices in strategic locations of their choice for the specific purpose of taking photos and/or videos of their target(s). That person may use their equipment to provide either a live stream or delayed broadcast of the footage he or she takes. A later upload of that footage may be directed either back to the voyeur’s home location and/or directly to an internet channel (such as Facebook and YouTube, for example) which allows for live or recorded broadcast of video footage.

With the aid of tiny cameras, video equipment, and a stationary internet connection, WiFi, or a mobile hotspot (such as that which smartphones provide), voyeurs can operate just about anywhere without their actual physical presence being in or near the location of their selected station or post of observation. In short, this means a voyeur doesn’t have to be perched or hiding somewhere nearby but may actually be many miles away. The usual voyeur “hang out” or spy stations often include places like: public restrooms, storage and maintenance closets, behind/on the other side of a faux (i.e. false, artificial) wall or partition, on the other side of any two-way wall mirror, and above drop or faux ceilings. Ever changing, more affordable, and easily accessible technology has allowed Gloryhole_PRSex (17) voyeur-4voyeurs to buy and hide cameras not only in restrooms and department store dressing rooms, but also in elevators, seldom-used stairwell fire escape areas, indoor and outdoor parking lots/garage areas, in obscure alleyways, on trees, sign posts, telephones in the park, even in private homes (particularly if the person setting up the camera is a guest, a visiting workman, or worse, an intruder). Such are just some of the places where voyeuristic people might want to spy on someone or perhaps on two or more people. Unsuspecting people can never know where a camera or videographic device might be positioned or located.

Many voyeurs have (what I and some others might consider as odd or abnormal) certain interests and/or fetishes. This is one of the reasons why they are able and willing to do what they do. If their motives are driven by a sexual interest and/or fetish, the voyeur may decide to observe another person perform one or more of the following intimate activities; urinate (take a piss), defecate (take a shit), masturbate, and/or have sex with or perform a sexual act with another person or with two or more people. The voyeur who chooses to spy on such activities usually does so for sexual gratification. That person will likely fondle him or herself or outright masturbate to whatever he or she sees happening in real time through the glory hole/crack or narrow opening. They may choose to masturbate later when he/she reviews the still-photo or recorded video footage taken. There are voyeurs who target specific people for the purpose of using their photos and/or videos in an extortion (blackmail) scheme such as public embarrassment and/or ransom.

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As discussed, many glory holes are indeed found in restroom stall divider walls or partitions. A glory hole doesn’t necessarily have to be a hole per se of a round design or circle. They may be a horizontal or vertical jagged crack or a neatly thin narrow space opening; the latter being normally found between or on the edge of some faux wall panels or in closets and cabinet door jams. Those thin narrow spaces or cracks are allowed there by builder design for expansion and stress purposes and for ease of opening and closing action of the cabinet or door.

If at this point you feel queasy or uncomfortable about being spied upon, then good! That’s your inner self reminding you to be aware of whatever it is you do, might choose to do, or are planning on doing which may be of a personally intimate nature while situated in a public space or area. You just never know who might be watching!

And now, this humorous break…

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This 3-part series continues and concludes here:
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 3) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-3]
… and begins here:
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 1) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-1]

– Renzo