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Ebony and Ivory … beautifully together in harmony.

LGBT Pride: Crushing [Gay] Stereotypes

Many straight (heterosexual) people, as well as a number of gay (homosexual) and bisexual people too, have certain stereotypical ideas, beliefs. Many from both camps even hold tall, often ridiculous expectations about how a gay man is suppose to look (in terms of his physical appearance and with his choice and coordination of attire); what he is suppose to sound like (in terms of his voice and voice inflection); how he is suppose to behave (in terms of his behavior and mannerisms, et al); and how he is suppose to have a certain level of knowledge and/or awareness of certain so-called “well-known” things and/or people in and about mainstream society (i.e., the entertainment world and overall popular culture).

The three-and-a-half-minute long (3:25) BuzzFeed video clip in this post [below] is here to help remind readers that simply because a man is gay it doesn’t necessarily mean that he automatically fits some idea or some known or expected stereotype of what general society assumes or wants to presume to be a man who is homosexual (gay).

On that note, I want to add that this video can also be representative of men who are bisexual. Even though nothing in the video makes one mention of such men, I felt that with myself being bisexual, I needed to let readers of this blog know how the video can relate to men who aren’t necessarily gay. Many bisexual men and many heterosexual (straight) men who regularly or occasionally have sex with men but who aren’t innately gay/homosexual nor identify as bisexual yet identify as a MSM male (men/males who have sex with men/males), tend to befriend, have sex with, date and/or get into committed relationships with men who are gay. Bisexual men and MSM men are also considered by society as being “non-straight“/”non-heterosexual” men.

There are many of bisexual men and MSM men who neither do everything stereotypical of gay men nor know everything that a gay man is [stereotypically] presumed or is expected to know in terms of fashion, pop culture, et al. We’re just regular guys being ourselves – just like each of the guys in the BuzzFeed video clip is describing about himself. (Besides, many people in general society already hold enough ignorance and misunderstanding about bisexuality. It’s an ignorance and misunderstanding which, unfortunately, has given birth to a number of bad stereotypes about bisexuality and which bisexual men and women often have to contend.)

The bottom line: the LGBTQ+ “community” is one that is legionwe are everywhere!
As such, we come from every background known and unknown to general society, and we come in every skin color, from every ethnic group, and from many cultures. We also come in every age group, from every sociopolitical and/or religious and non-religious mindset. In short, LGBTQ+ people come from every corner and crack of world society. We “non-straights”/non-heterosexuals simply are all not going to fit  at least not neatly, into some limited minded person’s or social group’s idea or expectation stereotypical or otherwise, of what a non-straight/non-heterosexual human individual “should” look like and/or “should” act like. That simply is not going to happen. The sooner people in both the heterosexual and the non-heterosexual communities realize this fact, the sooner we all will be able to better get along. Hopefully that situation will occur because it would mean that we have come to understand, appreciate, accept, and respect each other and our respective differences.

Watch/listen to the captioned text video. If you have an open and logical mind you should get the point of the message expressed by its participants. Better yet, you might be able to personally identify with one if not all of them. I certainly do!

– Renzo

Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Pt. 2 of 3)

NOTE: This is Part 2 of a 3-part series. [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-2]
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Glory Holes: Used by Voyeurs (spies); Aren’t All Holes in a Wall –
It’s not talked about much – and probably because it doesn’t seem as sexy to some people, but a glory hole is also a place for and is often used by people who like to watch or spy on the person or other people who are on other side of the hole. Such people are called voyeurs. Voyeurs may be male or female. They can be anyone who is old enough to be left alone and unsupervised out in the world (e.g., anyone over the age of 10). Voyeurs come from all races and ethnic groups, from all nationalities, and from a variety of economic, political, religious, academic, vocational, technological, social, and moral backgrounds. I would estimate that everyone either knowingly or unknowingly has met or may perhaps be related to at least one person who either is an active voyeur or who has voyeuristic tendencies. Some voyeurs are dangerous while others not so much or are completely harmless.

For voyeurs to be successful in what they do, that person simply needs to be smart, savvy, cunning, and intelligent enough not to get seen or caught in the act of spying on another person or group of people. Voyeurs may be anyone who has and who uses his or her own [smart] cellphone camera (or other portable electronic device having a built-in camera) and/or has access to and the expertise to install and use tiny camera devices. The voyeur with such technical skills will plant those camera devices in strategic locations of their choice for the specific purpose of taking photos and/or videos of their target(s). That person may use their equipment to provide either a live stream or delayed broadcast of the footage he or she takes. A later upload of that footage may be directed either back to the voyeur’s home location and/or directly to an internet channel (such as Facebook and YouTube, for example) which allows for live or recorded broadcast of video footage.

With the aid of tiny cameras, video equipment, and a stationary internet connection, WiFi, or a mobile hotspot (such as that which smartphones provide), voyeurs can operate just about anywhere without their actual physical presence being in or near the location of their selected station or post of observation. In short, this means a voyeur doesn’t have to be perched or hiding somewhere nearby but may actually be many miles away. The usual voyeur “hang out” or spy stations often include places like: public restrooms, storage and maintenance closets, behind/on the other side of a faux (i.e. false, artificial) wall or partition, on the other side of any two-way wall mirror, and above drop or faux ceilings. Ever changing, more affordable, and easily accessible technology has allowed Gloryhole_PRSex (17) voyeur-4voyeurs to buy and hide cameras not only in restrooms and department store dressing rooms, but also in elevators, seldom-used stairwell fire escape areas, indoor and outdoor parking lots/garage areas, in obscure alleyways, on trees, sign posts, telephones in the park, even in private homes (particularly if the person setting up the camera is a guest, a visiting workman, or worse, an intruder). Such are just some of the places where voyeuristic people might want to spy on someone or perhaps on two or more people. Unsuspecting people can never know where a camera or videographic device might be positioned or located.

Many voyeurs have (what I and some others might consider as odd or abnormal) certain interests and/or fetishes. This is one of the reasons why they are able and willing to do what they do. If their motives are driven by a sexual interest and/or fetish, the voyeur may decide to observe another person perform one or more of the following intimate activities; urinate (take a piss), defecate (take a shit), masturbate, and/or have sex with or perform a sexual act with another person or with two or more people. The voyeur who chooses to spy on such activities usually does so for sexual gratification. That person will likely fondle him or herself or outright masturbate to whatever he or she sees happening in real time through the glory hole/crack or narrow opening. They may choose to masturbate later when he/she reviews the still-photo or recorded video footage taken. There are voyeurs who target specific people for the purpose of using their photos and/or videos in an extortion (blackmail) scheme such as public embarrassment and/or ransom.

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As discussed, many glory holes are indeed found in restroom stall divider walls or partitions. A glory hole doesn’t necessarily have to be a hole per se of a round design or circle. They may be a horizontal or vertical jagged crack or a neatly thin narrow space opening; the latter being normally found between or on the edge of some faux wall panels or in closets and cabinet door jams. Those thin narrow spaces or cracks are allowed there by builder design for expansion and stress purposes and for ease of opening and closing action of the cabinet or door.

If at this point you feel queasy or uncomfortable about being spied upon, then good! That’s your inner self reminding you to be aware of whatever it is you do, might choose to do, or are planning on doing which may be of a personally intimate nature while situated in a public space or area. You just never know who might be watching!

And now, this humorous break…

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This 3-part series continues and concludes here:
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 3) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-3]
… and begins here:
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 1) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-1]

– Renzo

Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Pt. 1 of 3)

NOTE: This is Part 1 of a 3-part series. [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-1]

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Recently, my blogging friend Roger P. posted an article on his blog “From Top 2 Bottom Blog” discussing the subject of glory holes. (Click Glory Holes! to read Roger’s article.) At the same time I, too had been in the middle of writing an article on that same subject. This is that 3-part article.
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The word “glory hole” (sometimes spelled “gloryhole”) is a sexual slang word. It refers to a hole found or intentionally made in a wall, partition, closet door, curtain, or faux (i.e. false, artificial)ceiling or ceiling tile specifically for the purpose of either spying on someone (an act of voyeurism) engaging in sexual activity such as masturbation, fellatio (oral sex), anal copulation, and/or anilingus (aka ass licking/“ass eating”) with someone (usually men)who is on the other side of the hole in the wall, partition, closet door, or ceiling. Glory holes are often found in men’s public lavatory/restrooms stalls, and in a number of remaining adult video arcade booths.

Gloryholephobia 
I see little to practically nothing “glorious” about a gloryhole. I have long known and understood the history of and the reasons why glory holes existed and still exist. I’ve seen my share of them in various parts of the U.S. where I either lived or traveled, as well as in other parts of the world where I’ve travelled. I’ve also seen gloryholes in some male restrooms in college buildings, in a few male restrooms on military bases, and on a few [U.S. Navy] ships where I was either stationed or had visited. I’ve also seen gloryholes in the restrooms of several gay clubs (back in the late 1970s and in the 1980s), and in a number of adult bookstores which had “private” video booths in the back of the store during that era.

I fear and have always feared using glory holes. I have never wanted and was never brave enough to stick beloved penis/dick/cock through one. Gloryhole_PRSex (3)I would never pull my anus/butthole up against a glory hole to have it licked or fucked. You see, I have what I’d call “gloryholephobia”. Now, I’m not sure if either the word “gloryholephobia” or the phobia type itself exists or whether it’s used anywhere. As far as I know, I may have just created it! I define gloryholephobia as: the fear of what might happen to my beloved penis if I ever stuck it through any hole without knowing who or what kind of person – or thing – was on the other side of said hole. I simply fear having my one and only beautiful, precious, well-serving, pleasuring-giving & receiving cock infected with some kind of virus or disease, of having it bitten or chopped off by someone’s strong jaws and sharp teeth, or of having it amputated by an ax, machete, or sharp blade – or perhaps by some device resembling some kind of guillotine that’s made exclusively for chopping off penises. I also fear what might happen to my anus/butthole if I were to stick up against some mystery hole to have it licked and/or fucked. I realize this all sounds crazy and perhaps a bit funny to some readers but it isn’t to me; and how I feel is all that matters. I have held such fears ever since I first learned of glory holes then first saw one as a young teen. I’ll never forget asking myself at the time, “Who would dare take a chance and stick their dick through a hole like that?” Ghole_PRSex_GIF (2) editedAnyway, forty-five years is a long time to have such a fear … that is, to have “gloryholephobia”; but hey; my penis is still attached to me, is still working quite well, and has never once been infected by any person nor by any virus. My anus/butt hole has always been healthy, intact (and tight) too simply because I am always aware of who or what gets near it and who or what is inserted inside of it. Furthermore, I simply do not ever want my beloved cock touched, sucked (nor my ass fucked) by a stranger; someone whose face, mouth, and teeth I haven’t first seen and have determined as being “okay” for me to insert my dick in or through. And I’ve never been the kind of person who has been so desperate as to want his anus/butthole licked/eaten and/or fucked by a stranger. I’ll pass on all of that, thank-you!

As far as I’m concerned (and I remind readers that this is strictly my opinion), I find the very idea of a man sticking his [supposedly] beloved, precious erect or flaccid penis/dick/cock through any mysterious hole – with the expectation of getting it sucked by anonymous male or female person or for that penis to fuck the mouth, vagina, anus/butthole of an anonymous person on the other side of that hole, as being potentially dangerous. I find it risky and dangerous health-wise and I find that act an idiotic thing to do. The same potential risks of danger to health and/or physical self applies to any man who sticks his anus/butthole up against a hole in a partition or wall, or (if the partition is high enough off the floor) below that partition with the expectation of getting his asshole licked by a tongue (a sex act knownas ‘anilingus’ or “ass eating”) and/or fucked by a penis (or some other object). Regardless of whether the participant is playing the role of the giver or the role of the receiverof such sexual favors, that man would have to at least hope (or would have stupidly assumed) that either the anonymous cock or anonymous tongue he is physically encountering isn’t dirty or bleeding, or is diseased, infected or contaminated in some way.

Gloryholephobia: Two Exceptions –
First Exception:
My gloryholephobia would not extend to penises which are stuck through my side of the glory hole. All I might be willing to do in such cases is touch the guy’s dick and jerk it off (masturbate the penis). However, I would make it very clear to that guy that I have no intention of ever putting my tongue or lips on his dick (which means that I would not suck it; I have that much self-control over my lust.) That man can then decide what he wants to do from that point, although I doubt he’d want to keep his dick stuck through the hole after hearing my conditions.

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Second Exception: My gloryholephobia also would not extend to someone whom I happen to know – and like – such as a fuck buddy or an open-minded straight (heterosexual) friend of mine who occasionally has sex with men. That person and I would both have to want and decide to do the “glory hole thing” simply for kicks; that is, with just the two of us jerking or sucking off each other’s dick. Whether through a glory hole or under the toilet stall partition, I would never engage in anilingus nor in anal sex with a guy – not even with my fuck buddy or straight friend. Again, any other sexual activity in a restroom would be between me and my fuck buddy or friend and never with a stranger.

Public Restroom Sex –
While I wouldn’t engage in glory hole sex, I am not implying that I’ve never had public restroom sex of some kind – which would include masturbation. Solo masturbation is a sexual act since it considered sex with one’s self. And so yes, I have indeed masturbated – and left my DNA (e.g. semen/cum residue), in a number of public restrooms more times and in more places than I can or even care to remember. I’m sure just about every sexually healthy male has masturbated in a public restroom at least once in his life. (Read the Masculine Perspectives article “Doing a Nasty Thing in the Men’s Room” [Dick Spit No. 2017-03])

Aside from solo and/or partner masturbation in a public restroom, I am not into having any anonymous nor “mystery suck and/or fuck” sex in those places, particularly not the kind of sex offered by some stranger through a glory hole. If you haven’t yet guess, I – or rather my dick and asshole, avoid gloryholes. My public restroom sexual experiences has only been limited to sexual foreplay; that is, kissing and feeling it upmen whom I either had met and talked with for a while, or with men whom I already knew and with whom I were already friends and/or fuck buddies. Gloryhole_PRSex (11) restrm makeout (GIF)Such foreplay was with guys (and would still be with guys) whose whole physical body I can see, happened to like, and would find attractive. I’d want to be able to touch and maybe even smell the scent of that man’s body. While standing at a few trough urinals still found in some pubs and bars in the U.S. and in other countries), I have kissed, jacked off (masturbated) and even held and “massaged” the pissing dick of some men. (I love the feel of a guy’s flaccid penis getting hard/erect in my hand as I held it.) The sexual foreplay in which I participated always led to that guy and I heading outside, either to the back of the building we were in, or to his car or mine. We might continue the sexual foreplay or get into having all-out sex. Better (and safer) yet, we’d force ourselves to stop messing around so that we can drive to his place or mine to pick up where we left off.

Public Restroom Particular –
I have always been particular of where I have sex. And while normally I would never have anonymous sex in a public restroom, I have the exceptions noted earlier. If the dude is someone I know then there are things I’d have to consider before agreeing to have sex of any kind in a public restroom. For example, I won’t ever mess around with any guy who just got done defecating (taking a shit) or puking up his guts (vomiting). I won’t mess around in a men’s restroom that has the odor of piss or shit, no matter how faint or strong that odor is. I won’t mess around in any warm or humid restroom, nor in restrooms having poor ventilation. I prefer any restroom be cool in temperature, and have a couple of windows or other means of ventilation.

My ideal men’s [public] restroom is always clean, a bit cool temperature-wise, and looks and smells very nice. Such places do exist. Such restrooms are found in many fine hotels, large corporate buildings, and federal government buildings. I’ve never seen any of those restrooms have glory holes, although a number of them have a certain amount of space between the bottom of the toilet stall partition and the floor. Gloryhole_PRSex (7)The space allows just enough room for a guy to squat down, stick his dick under the partition, and have the guy on the other side reach down to jack him off, suck him off, or be ass fucked. In such places I’d say I’m more of a “jack-him-off-under-the-partition” kind of guy; one who’d prefer – and insist to that dude on the other side (whom I would first have to know) that we make out and/or suck dick in the last stall in that restroom; the larger area stall that’s reserved for disabled and wheel-chaired users. A number of men’s restroom in large corporate and federal government buildings have at least two such stalls.

Once again to be clear, as far as all-out sex in any restroom is concerned I do not engage and choose not to engage in public restroom oral, anal, nor vaginal sex with anonymous people…strangers. Frankly, I heavily frown upon it. I simply have personal health and hygiene concerns and reasons for that. I would never kneel, squat, nor lay down on some nasty, piss, cum, spit and/or fecal matter covered or stained restroom floor simply to put my dick under the partition. Masturbatory sex – that is, jacking/jerking off another man (or participating in a mutual masturbation/jack off session with that man) would be the only kind of public restroom sex in which I would engage with an anonymous person.
(S/N: Though I’m bisexual, I often don’t want females jacking me off because it always takes them too long to get me to cum!)

If you haven’t yet realized it, I tend to be judgmental of those persons who initiate and/or engage in public restroom or interstate expressway rest stop anonymous sex. Mind you, I am not against the act of sex itself. No. I am simply against any and all intentionally careless, reckless, and potentially dangerous practices of sex. I feel this way because for decades, it’s been well documented as fact that anonymous partner sex acts have the great potential of either one or all of the participants transmitting or contracting venereal infections and/or diseases (aka sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or sexual transmitted diseases (STDs)). I simply am not down with that sort of thing.

And now, this humorous break…

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This 3-part series continues here…
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 2) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-2]
… and concludes here…
Glory Holes & Public Restroom Sex (Part 3) [Dick Spit No. 2018-03-3]

– Renzo

Three Kinds of People…

I’m old enough to know (and life continues to remind me) that in the so-called “two/three kinds of people in the world” scenario, there is yet another category set to consider (at least as far as I’m concerned):

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  • those who don’t have a clue
  • those who don’t give a fuck
    and
  • those who do

Of the three categories listed, some people do not know where they would stand or fit nor why. Other people however, do. I suppose the latter is a good thing because living life is easier when the other person either already knows, can clearly see, or is shown exactly where you fit and where they fit.

Hopefully you will always be associated with people who continuously show themselves to have an intelligent clue about both the important things in life and the seemingly or supposedly less-significant things in life; people who also can – or at least would be willing to give a fuck about many, if not most or all, of the same things you do.
 
– Renzo