MP’s Photo of the Day (50)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

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Wow. Erotic. Can a scene of men get any hotter – and sexually sinful  than this? Duh!
Of course it can! This ain’t nothin’ but a tease, baby. Enjoy!

Sunday’s Sin (33)

Presenting images which boldly and shamelessly reflect the expressions of natural love, affection, intimacy, sensuality, and bonding between men.

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MP’s Photo of the Day (49)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (29jan2019)

Masturbation: one of the best – and safest – relievers of human sexual tension.

MP’s Photo of the Day (48)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (27jan2019)Oh, just to be able to nestle my face deep between his thighs; to continuously inhale the manly pheromones…that musky scrotum odor so wonderfully familiar to every man! 

Sexual Reciprocation

[Dick Spit No. 2019-03] In this article I talk briefly about sexual reciprocation with regard to sexual roles and sexual acts.

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Whether you’re in a “fuck-buddy” or a friends-with-benefits relationship, or perhaps in an intimate and committed relationship, I believe it’s always best for each person in the relationship to clearly establish what it is that either person in the relationship will do and won’t do sexually. I prefer to believe that each sexually active person either has certain limits, tolerances, and/or a measure or degree of comfort regarding the sexual role they play as well as the kind of sexual acts they will perform or will have performed on them. Of course, no person should ever be forced or coerced into doing anything sexual which they either do not want to do or which they feel – or would or might feel uncomfortable with doing to someone else or with having done to themselves.

I also believe in giving or allowing a person the opportunity to return the sexual favor I  performed (or which that person had performed on me) and to do so of their own volition or if so asked. I call this sexual reciprocation or sexual reciprocating. In my opinion, mutual reciprocation is an important element in any sexual relationshipThis is where openly communicating with one’s partner comes in; where you and your partner determine what sexual role will be played, by whom, for how long, etc, and/or what sexual act(s) will be allowed or not allowed, and to what extent. You and your partner can determine whether or not the sexual roles can or will be reversed and if certain sexual act(s) can, will, or should be returned in kind. If while having sex, a partner says no to anything, then you should accept that person’s answer and, if necessary, make a mental note to discuss the matter later (assuming your partner is willing), after the sex you’re having is over.

sexreciprocation art-3If you are a “go-with-the-flow” in bed kind of guy and not (what I’d call) an only” kind of guy in bed (with the word “only” meaning that you “only top” or that you “only bottom”), then this article may appeal to you, otherwise it may not. (No shade or disrespect to those gay, bisexual, and SGL (same-gender loving) male readers who are “top only” or “bottom only” kind of guys. To be honest, you wouldn’t be my type.)

As most of you know, when it comes to male-on-male anal coitus (anal intercourse), there are men who either are – or who prefer – the sexual role of being the top (aka the penetrator), or the bottom (aka the penetrated), as well as men who are simply versatile (meaning, with regard to sexual roles, they “go with the flow” during sex…meaning, they can be either the top or the bottom in male-to-male anal coitus). Some men consider themselves as simply sexual versatile when it comes to male-to-male anal coitus while other men who are versatile get a bit more specific when describing their sexual roles. Such versatile men may consider themselves as being a versatile-top. This simply means that while such men enjoy playing the role of the top, sometimes they may prefer to bottom. Other versatile men may consider themselves as being a versatile-bottom. This simply means that while such men enjoy playing the role of the bottom, sometimes they may prefer to top.

As a sexually versatile man myself (versatile bottom, to be specific), reciprocation of sexual roles – like sexual acts, is important to me. In other words, there may be times when I do not want to bottom. Communicating this to an understanding partner – particularly to a partner who himself is or may be versatile (or specifically is a versatile-top or a versatile-bottom), can help keep the relationship healthy and strong.

sexreciprocation art-1Reciprocation of the sexual role and/or with a sexual act simply involves each person in the relationship knowing and understanding the desires, needs, and feelings of their partner as well as each person in that relationship being thoughtful, considerate, and patient. Each partner in the relationship should try to express his (or her) point of view regarding any matter of sex; doing so wisely (and preferably) long before ever allowing four, six, eight, twelve or more months to pass in the relationship. Few people neither like nor appreciate late-in-the-relationship sexual surprises. Whether your sexual relationship with a person is classified as being that of “fuck-buddy”, a “friend-with-benefits” or one that’s an intimate commitment, there’s never any need for anyone in the relationship to be in need nor unhappy because to be such means that the relationship is not a healthy relationship.

Watch the 15-minute YouTube (safe-for-work) gay video short posted below called Versátil (Versatile). In the film, you’ll meet Alex and Hugo, a handsome gay couple. Versátil is a foreign-language video but has English subtitles. I don’t know how long the video will be on YouTube so I suggest you watch it as soon as you can. (If you can’t see the video embedded in this article then either click here or click the video title above.)

I encourage you to share your comments about the video and/or your own personal experiences related to sexual reciprocation in the comments section. (Thanks!)

– Renzo

MP’s Photo of the Day (47)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (26jan2019)

Classy and sexy!

Feeling Sick…Yet Still Sexual!

rfx_fuck it, sick,not feeling well[Dick Spit No. 2019-02] 
Hey fellas.

I’m sorry that since last Saturday (19JAN19), I hadn’t posted to Masculine Perspectives. I’ve been feeling “under the weather (read: sick, ill) for eight (8) days straight! UGH! I just spent time trying to take care of myself.
(S/N: Now’s the time when I could use a nice, warm, naked hug from the front and someone warm and naked to “become one with me” from the back. Please? Thank you!)

Today however, I’m beginning to feel a little better, although I still have a terrible and nagging cough and cold. Along with cold meds, rest, taking my daily shower (a norm for me) a diet of soup, crackers, tea and honey (which I sometimes spike with rum because I’m old school that way), drinking lots of water, and of course, sucking on cough drops (instead of dick), I’ve tried to avoid speaking whenever I can so that my throat can heal. My 22-year-old son who’s away in college, loves to text me rather than have a voice conversation on the phone. He appreciates the temporary pass I’ve given him to just go ahead and text me instead of calling or having a Facetime session. Kids today.
I’m a radio broadcast announcer and station DJ by profession, therefore I need my voice to properly and efficiently do my job. (And oh boy; the acting job I did last Saturday while doing my radio show – a time when the symptoms of illness seemed to have hit me the hardest, was no-less than Oscar-winning indeed!)

I’ll be back very soon (perhaps as soon as late this evening or this weekend) to posting more dick-chubbin’ eye candy photos and sharing more of my thoughts, experiences, and/or useful information which (per the mission and purpose of this blog) promote the expression, frank discussion, and celebration of matters related to male masculinity, sexuality and sensuality. Until then, take care and remember to exercise your prostate. (Life’s too short not to have an orgasm every day.) Before I close this article, here’s a sexy anecdote that may give some of you a chuckle.

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A few days ago, I tried jacking off (masturbating). Well…actually I did indeed masturbate/jack off.  Mind you, I neither needed nor had any real desire or horniness to masturbate. I simply wanted to play with myself because…well, I hadn’t had a hard-on (erection) in a few days! (S/N: I suppose when you get my age (58), you always want to be sure that you can still get your dick hard whenever you want – even when you’re sick.)

So…there I was in bed that one night – naked of course, because I always sleep in the nude whether or not I’m sick – and played with my then-limp/flaccid dick and big balls. Thinking back to some of my past sexually hot experiences which often serve as my  ‘batespiration (“batespiration” ia portmanteau of the words ‘masturbation’ and ‘inspiration’)I got hard and began masturbating, I stopped briefly to grab some Albolene, some of which I keep in a small canister in my nightstand.
renzo, albolene jar(S/N: Albolene is the primary 
product I use as lube for masturbation. I’ll talk about some lubes I use to masturbate with in a future Masculine Perspectives blog article.)  I put some Albolene on my cock and return to jacking off. Fuck, was it difficult for me to concentrate! And I didn’t like the fact that my hard cock somehow felt a lot thinner in my hand in terms of its normal girth. What the fuck was in my hand?

After what seemed like hours, I finally came, ate my load – because fuck, guys…I simply enjoy doing that sometimes, wiped my greasy hand and dick, breathed a huge sigh of post-orgasmic relief, turned over and immediately fell asleep.

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Now, you might ask, “Why did you bother masturbating knowing you were sick?
All I can say to that question is this: I was sick … and certainly not thinking well at the moment; perhaps hoping that an orgasm would help me feel a bit better. While I had an orgasm and ejaculated a decent amount of semen, I barely felt the orgasm itself that night. There could be any number of reasons for that. Anyway fellas, I wasn’t being dumb as I was jacking my dick; I was simply being male and…..sexual. It is what it is with me. Masturbating did not make me feel any sicker. In fact, masturbating may have helped heal me in some small way. As I write this article, I’m considering jacking off again – either after work this evening but for sure once or twice this weekend because, as I just said, masturbation just may speed up the healing process!
I talked briefly about my jack-off experience in this tweet which I also posted to my Facebook page:
rfx, renzo tweet (22jan2019)Hope you enjoyed the read! Naked hugs… and a gentle tug to your left buttock!

– Renzo