MP’s Photo of the Day (70)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).MP_POTD (08AUG2019) JO aftermath

While searching my spank bank for the “ideal photo” to use for Masculine Perspectives’ 70th Photo of the Day, I found this one which I’d labeled “JO Aftermath”.
I chose this photo because it not only perfectly reflects a situation which most of us who masturbate can certainly relate to, but also to celebrate – and to promote – the completely natural, healthy, relatively safe, wonderfully feeling, and [usually] solo sexual act of masturbation.

– Renzo

MP’s Photo of the Day (49)

Featuring specially selected images of clothed, semi-nude, or fully nude men (and other random images of masculinity).

mp_potd (29jan2019)

Masturbation: one of the best – and safest – relievers of human sexual tension.

Feeling Sick…Yet Still Sexual!

rfx_fuck it, sick,not feeling well[Dick Spit No. 2019-02] 
Hey fellas.

I’m sorry that since last Saturday (19JAN19), I hadn’t posted to Masculine Perspectives. I’ve been feeling “under the weather (read: sick, ill) for eight (8) days straight! UGH! I just spent time trying to take care of myself.
(S/N: Now’s the time when I could use a nice, warm, naked hug from the front and someone warm and naked to “become one with me” from the back. Please? Thank you!)

Today however, I’m beginning to feel a little better, although I still have a terrible and nagging cough and cold. Along with cold meds, rest, taking my daily shower (a norm for me) a diet of soup, crackers, tea and honey (which I sometimes spike with rum because I’m old school that way), drinking lots of water, and of course, sucking on cough drops (instead of dick), I’ve tried to avoid speaking whenever I can so that my throat can heal. My 22-year-old son who’s away in college, loves to text me rather than have a voice conversation on the phone. He appreciates the temporary pass I’ve given him to just go ahead and text me instead of calling or having a Facetime session. Kids today.
I’m a radio broadcast announcer and station DJ by profession, therefore I need my voice to properly and efficiently do my job. (And oh boy; the acting job I did last Saturday while doing my radio show – a time when the symptoms of illness seemed to have hit me the hardest, was no-less than Oscar-winning indeed!)

I’ll be back very soon (perhaps as soon as late this evening or this weekend) to posting more dick-chubbin’ eye candy photos and sharing more of my thoughts, experiences, and/or useful information which (per the mission and purpose of this blog) promote the expression, frank discussion, and celebration of matters related to male masculinity, sexuality and sensuality. Until then, take care and remember to exercise your prostate. (Life’s too short not to have an orgasm every day.) Before I close this article, here’s a sexy anecdote that may give some of you a chuckle.

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A few days ago, I tried jacking off (masturbating). Well…actually I did indeed masturbate/jack off.  Mind you, I neither needed nor had any real desire or horniness to masturbate. I simply wanted to play with myself because…well, I hadn’t had a hard-on (erection) in a few days! (S/N: I suppose when you get my age (58), you always want to be sure that you can still get your dick hard whenever you want – even when you’re sick.)

So…there I was in bed that one night – naked of course, because I always sleep in the nude whether or not I’m sick – and played with my then-limp/flaccid dick and big balls. Thinking back to some of my past sexually hot experiences which often serve as my  ‘batespiration (“batespiration” ia portmanteau of the words ‘masturbation’ and ‘inspiration’)I got hard and began masturbating, I stopped briefly to grab some Albolene, some of which I keep in a small canister in my nightstand.
renzo, albolene jar(S/N: Albolene is the primary 
product I use as lube for masturbation. I’ll talk about some lubes I use to masturbate with in a future Masculine Perspectives blog article.)  I put some Albolene on my cock and return to jacking off. Fuck, was it difficult for me to concentrate! And I didn’t like the fact that my hard cock somehow felt a lot thinner in my hand in terms of its normal girth. What the fuck was in my hand?

After what seemed like hours, I finally came, ate my load – because fuck, guys…I simply enjoy doing that sometimes, wiped my greasy hand and dick, breathed a huge sigh of post-orgasmic relief, turned over and immediately fell asleep.

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Now, you might ask, “Why did you bother masturbating knowing you were sick?
All I can say to that question is this: I was sick … and certainly not thinking well at the moment; perhaps hoping that an orgasm would help me feel a bit better. While I had an orgasm and ejaculated a decent amount of semen, I barely felt the orgasm itself that night. There could be any number of reasons for that. Anyway fellas, I wasn’t being dumb as I was jacking my dick; I was simply being male and…..sexual. It is what it is with me. Masturbating did not make me feel any sicker. In fact, masturbating may have helped heal me in some small way. As I write this article, I’m considering jacking off again – either after work this evening but for sure once or twice this weekend because, as I just said, masturbation just may speed up the healing process!
I talked briefly about my jack-off experience in this tweet which I also posted to my Facebook page:
rfx, renzo tweet (22jan2019)Hope you enjoyed the read! Naked hugs… and a gentle tug to your left buttock!

– Renzo

Male Masturbation: Appreciating Both Hands

**NOTE** This is the first in a new and continuous Masculine Perspectives blog series on male masturbation.

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[Dick Spit No. 2018-04] I am right-handed. That means that most personally intimate things are done using with my right hand rather than my left. When I want to pleasure myself, I use either my left or my right hand as needed, depending on what I want or have to do. However when masturbating (aka jacking off or jerking off), I always use my right hand. (Keep reading; I break all of this down later.)

Due to having carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS) issues for the past several days, I’ve had to wear a damn hand & wrist orthosis (aka a support brace). Of course, wearing that thing hindered my ability to jack off with my right hand. (Mind you, I never wear the orthosis when I have to take a shit. I’m just glad the CTS doesn’t flare up when it’s time for me to wipe my ass! LOL!😊)

Typing anything on my laptop while wearing the orthosis had become quite a tiresome chore so I rarely did any of that, seeing that whenever I draft a blog article or leave a post or comment on social media sites like Facebook, I tend to write more than just a few words. When I drafted the article you’re now reading, I thought that if I typed with the orthosis off my hand – even for just a few minutes at a time, I wouldn’t have any wrist pain. Nope; I was wrong. Renzo's Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (CTS) IssueWithin minutes of typing without the orthosis, my wrist starting tingling again. If you’ve never had carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS), try to imagine being stung by several sharp needles hitting your skin in the same area, in rapid succession, several hundred times at the same time. It’s like the nerves in your wrist are being compressed or pinched. Another way to understand the CTS pain, is the pain you might remember feeling if you’ve ever been stung either by a bee (or worse) by a hornet (the sting of the latter insect I know all about because it happened to me – and that sting hurt like a bitch!) Anyway, those two instances are probably the best ways I know to describe the feeling of CTS. Click here to read more about carpal tunnel syndrome (CTS).

Like most dudes who masturbate, I grip my dry or pre-cum or lube-covered erect penis/dick/cock with my entire right hand, not just with my fingers. In fact, I don’t know any guys who jack off with just a couple of fingers, though I’m sure they’re out there somewhere. I respect the fact that every dude has a masturbation method that is ideal, and which happens to work for him. I don’t judge but I’d never let a guy jack me off with just a couple of fingers. Uh-uh. Nope. Fuck that. I’m gonna need a guy to grip my hard dick just firmly enough (not to hurt me) with his whole hand and show my schlong some interest and love!

Over the near fifty (50!) years that I’ve been masturbating – which I suppose would make me a “master masturbator” 😄 (and it will indeed be fifty years come 2019, seeing how I started jacking off when I was nine years old), occasionally I’ve done some left-handed masturbating. Using the left-hand method, I’ve rarely jacked off long enough to reach…uh, completion(“Completion” means that I didn’t jack off to the point of semen ejaculation and/or orgasm.) When my circumcised penis is erect/hard, it curves a bit up and to the left, making masturbating with my left hand not necessarily uncomfortable but somewhat difficult to do with pleasure, regardless of how I’m holding my dick. Naked twink reading gay fictionThus, the left-hand jack off method is something I rarely do. Whether I’m flipping through the internet/web, through a pornographic magazine, or reading some sexually erotic story in a book – all while using with my right hand, my left hand is rubbing my dick; getting it to grow from a “chub” (semi-erect/hard) to a “rod” (full erection) – and catching pre-cum in the process (which I always either eat or, if I’m using lube, smear it on the head and shaft of my dick, and/or I’ll smear it on my nipples). I’d do this until I was ready to let my right hand take over the jacking job.

(S/N: I just had a thought of how much I appreciate writing all this to guys who can relate and not to women. I doubt few women would or could understand, much less appreciate this article, and certainly none of them would be able to relate because, duh…they don’t have a penis! LOL! 😆)

Since I always masturbate with my right handmy left hand has other very important sexy jobs to do during my jack-off sessions, some if not all of which some male readers might be able to relate to since they do these things themselves. (S/N: In every jack session I am, and prefer to be, completely naked.) In no particular order, here’s what I use my left hand for, especially while my right hand is slick with precum or lube and massaging my hard cock. (An article about some of the products I like to use for jack-off lube is forthcoming.):

  • If I’m watching porn on my laptop computer, my left hand is used to move the computer mouse or type on the keyboard to click or flip though websites or webpages;
  • whether I’m looking at porn sites on my laptop computer – which I keep on my desk – my desk also serves as my masturbation stationam just lying in bed, or sitting on the floor, my left hand is used to …
  • cup and/or fondle my hairy balls;Renzo's lifelike 7inch dildo
  • rub my inner thigh areas to get some of my ball sack musk for me to sniff;
  • massage my taint (the perineum);
  • massage or finger-fuck my butt hole;
  • insert (in my ass) my penis-sharped dildo (or whatever other phallic-shaped object I’ve got lying around and want to use) and piston-fuck myself – either slow or fast, depending on how horny I am or have become after edging for a long time;
  • massage or pinch my nipples (after I’ve first licked the index finger and thumb of that handand, with the fingers of my left hand …
  • carry the sweet precum that’s been oozing from my dick (usually while edging), to either smear on my hard nipples, lips, or feed into my mouth.

As you can see fellas, I shamelessly like talking about how I make my masturbation sessions sensuous and sexy! And why the fuck shouldn’t I talk about how I give myself (and/or another dude) such deserving, sensuous, physical, and sexual pleasure?Flyin' Solo-38 Masturbation is natural. It is also a very safe, healthy, fun, and pleasurable act of being human. Life is too short for a man not to have an orgasm whenever and as often as he can or want to have. This is true regardless of whether that man has or doesn’t have a steady or occasional partner with whom he can have sex. And, while that man is on the way to giving himself (and/or his partner) that orgasm, there’s no reason for him not to build for himself (and/or his male partner) an intense, longer-lasting orgasm.

Finally, rarely do I ever do what I like to call, the jack off quickie. I prefer to save such quickies for when I’m exceptionally horny and happened to be someplace (like at my job for instance) where I can’t leave anytime soon or can’t get naked to masturbate. In such instances, I might wait until I get home to “take care of business“, or I’d go to either one of the following places to jack off:
– the men’s restroom (choosing the last or next to the last stall – if it’s clean) or to a unisex restroom (which is best because you can lock the door behind you);
– a storage room, maintenance closet, or ante-room;
– an empty, seldom used office or room;
or better yet (because there’s a better degree of privacy)
     – to my car – if parked nearby, if the weather is fine, and outside temperature is of a comfortable degree.

Flyin' Solo-73Jack-off quickies are okay when a guy’s horniness begins to overwhelm him. However, if that guy wants to truly take his time to edge his dick, and to feel/caress his balls, play with his taint/perineum, and ass hole, and/or touch every erogenous zone (aka e-zones) that he can reach and feel on his naked body – all without interruption or nearby eavesdroppers, then he’ll need all of his will power to refrain from the temptation of doing a jack off quickie and wait until he’s safely home or to his room (if he has roommates); any place where there’s [more] privacy for him to peacefully get erotically and sexually tuned into himself as he masturbates.

I’ve got more to share in this Masculine Perspectives series on male masturbation coming in future blog articles. Stay tuned!

– Renzo

That Moment When…

… you just watched an old selfie-video from a few years ago of you jacking off. You got turned the fuck on so much by your own orgasmic grunts and the video images of your dick shooting a hot load that in real time, your dick gets hard and starts leaking precum.
Now, that’s as hot as fuckin’ hot can be!

*Renzo hits video repeat, eats some precum, and starts jacking off in real time.*

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P/N:  And yes; the “package” shown in this post proudly belongs to yours truly.
– Renzo ♂😏 ♂

 

That Moment When…

… while masturbating, your fantasy (or fantasies) takes you to the point of being more than simple sexual imagination. In fact, you’ve been so mentally creative and have been edging for so long, that you allow your mind to fool you into thinking that you can feel the actual weight of another dude on top of you; that he’s actually fucking that dick-hungry ass hole you’ve been massaging and either finger or dildo fucking for the past half hour or so.
Wow. What a fantasy!
Or was it? Could it be that you’re having sex with a…a…a… ghost?
Hmmm…
Whatever. Refocus your mind on the…uh… task in hand!

When you bust (and you will bust) it won’t matter so much whether you blew a huge cum load (though that in itself would be sweet). All you’d want – and certainly will expect, is for your orgasm to be intense as fuck… with many post-orgasmic waves to follow.
Fuck yeah!

– Renzo

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